Are You Really an Entrepreneur … Or Simply a Service Provider?

I think every business owner has come to the point in their business where they say to themselves, “Sometimes I think it would be much easier to just go get a job!”

Well, if you haven’t, I can assure you I’ve found myself in that position many times, but thankfully it was only a passing thought similar to a gas pain.  :)

I had a conversation with a business owner a couple weeks ago who was faced with an opportunity to take on a full time position and he was struggling with the decision to shut down his company, and move into the land of employment.

As he explained the opportunity to me, I quickly understood the challenge he was facing.

First of all, he’s amazing at what he does and almost every client he’s worked gives a glowing review of the value they’ve received throughout their business relationship.

His business is doing extremely well and there are no pressing financial disasters, or lack of work that would be pushing him in the direction of leaving the world of an entrepreneur.

On the surface you might be thinking, “Well if things are going well, his customers are raving about him, and there is plenty of work to be done … why the heck would he want to work for someone else?”

I was thinking the exact same thing until we started to explore the benefits his business could potentially receive from the experience and connections he’d gain by pursuing the opportunity.  The beauty of the offer was that he could accept it and it would be perfectly reasonable for him to stay for as little as 3-4 years and then he could go back to building his company. If he leveraged the relationships he created during his tenure, his business would likely explode when he jumped back in.

He saw the true benefit of taking the position, but he wasn’t sure he was willing to put his business “on hold” for 3-4 years since he felt like things were going well.

The problem began to come into focus very clearly to me as we talked…

He didn’t really have a business, he was a service provider!

Now don’t get me wrong, there is absolutely nothing wrong with being a service provider, but it isn’t the same thing as being an entrepreneur.

The definition of an entrepreneur is:

a person who organizes and manages any enterprise, especially a business, usually with considerable initiative and risk.

Although that’s the definition listed in Dictionary.com, to me, the way to tell if you have a true business or not is to answer one simple question…

Can your “business” go on if you aren’t present or working within it?

In my opinion, if the answer to this question is “NO,” then I personally believe you may simply be a service provider, or at least you haven’t yet taken the full responsibilities of an entrepreneur, and developed a true company.

The most successful entrepreneurs take the time to think through the mindset of their “buyers.”  They develop processes to ensure they deliver what these “buyers” are desperately seeking, and most importantly, they develop a mission and effectively communicate that mission to their staff ( no matter how few they have ) so that mission becomes a part of their company’s DNA.

If you’ve done this correctly, you can have a business that grows and thrives whether you are there  or not.  This will then free you up to scratch that entrepreneurial itch the next time you have a great idea for a new business.  :)

Leave a comment below if you’ve ever found yourself dealing with a similar decision, or if you have some words of advice for those who are in that situation currently.

Finding Motivation Shouldn’t Take Extraordinary Measures

This weekend Amanda  ( http://www.thexraychic.com ) and I went and watched the movie, “Extraordinary Measures.”  I am personally a HUGE fan of movies and really enjoy those based on true stories the most.  There is just something about watching a film about an event which has actually occurred and getting a chance to experience the different points of view of the characters.

Although some movies miss the mark and aren’t very interesting, this movie did an excellent job!

The movie was a story about a father who had two children with Pompe Disease which is very similar to Muscular Dystrophy.  The muscles deteriorate due to the inability of the body to  break down the sugars.  According to the movie the life expectancy of a child with the disease is only about 9 years.

I was on the verge of tears several times  as I watched the parents struggle with the fact: two of their children were nearing that magic age of 9, while they were desperately seeking a cure for this horrible disease.  The father was constantly doing research just trying to find some hope.  He ultimately identified a grumpy old scientist who had a theory which gave him hope.

He quit his high level corporate job and basically gave everything he had to find a cure which would POSSIBLY lengthen the lives of his children.  He had an incredible decision to make since, based on what the doctors had told him, and the normal course of the disease, his children had a very short period of time left.  His decision was to either spend the last few “days” with his children, or fight like hell to try to find a solution which would not cure them, but could possibly lengthen their lives.

Alright, I am not a movie reviewer, nor do I want to ruin the outcome of the movie for you if you choose to see it.  :)

When I left the theater I couldn’t stop thinking about how I would do the exact same thing he did if I found my children in any type of similar situation.  There would be NOTHING that could stop me from turning over every stone to uncover something to possibly save them.

I also began to think about how challenging it is for some people to find the motivation to do even the bare minimum to succeed.  I’ve met some incredibly intelligent people who have tremendous skills and talents who seem to not move ahead in life.  I used to spend time wondering why and in some cases, I tried to motivate them myself.

The problem is some people simply don’t contain the self motivation necessary to do anything beyond existing.

Although I now accept this as just the way it is, I believe this movie can teach a lesson that it DOESN’T have to be that way.  If you find yourself in the position where it is difficult to motivate yourself  … You need to find a big enough reason why.

I thank God every day that my children are healthy and happily enjoying life.  When I find it difficult to find motivation I simply think about the type of example I am setting for them.  If my children see me working hard to become successful, and working just as hard to give them a happy life … I believe that example will perpetuate itself and be passed on to their children, and their children’s children.

I don’t think it should take extraordinary measures to find motivation within yourself.  I believe we need to look deep inside ourselves and find something that is important enough to help you make it through the times of difficulty.

I believe that if you get in the habit of finding this reason why, and focus on it consistently, you can prevent yourself from ever being in the position to learn how to motivate yourself when it is simply too late and you are forced to pay the painful price of taking what life has given you.

What is your reason why?

Everybody Gets Down At Times … Successful People Don’t Stay Down!

I work very hard to maintain a positive attitude and a positive outlook on life.  The longer I’ve focused on this, sometimes elusive goal, the easier it has become to maintain a positive outlook on my life and the challenges I am faced with.

Although it has gotten easier with time, it can still be difficult.

I used to think people who constantly preached the importance of being a “Positive Thinker,” were strange.  I always thought these people needed to wake up and smell the coffee!

It seemed as thought they bought into some “cult-like” belief that if they said, “Everything is great” … that somehow they could trick themselves into some delusional belief that everything was “ok” no matter how much crap they had to deal with.

I’ve finally arrived at the point in my life where I understand the value of maintaining a positive outlook, but I am also a realist. Continue reading

Experience Your Surroundings As If You Are A Tourist Seeing Them For The First Time

Since I started my experiment I’ve realized that I’m paying much closer attention to my thoughts, my actions, and also my surroundings, and I have to tell you it has modified the way I look at things in a big way.

I’ve been fortunate to do quite a bit of traveling in the past few months and have seen some incredibly beautiful and interesting places.  Whether it was the beauty of the amazing people I met while in the Dominican Republic,  the majestic mountains of Colorado, the awesome coastline and cliffs of Laguna Beach, or the history and beautiful monuments I visited while in Washington DC.

No matter how diverse and incredible those places were, while focusing on my experiment and developing the new habits through my action focused goal setting, I found that none of those places were any more amazing and beautiful as the place I call home … Grand Rapids, Michigan! Continue reading

Don’t Forget to Celebrate Your Accomplishments!

If you are at all like me you spend a significant amount of time beating yourself up for NOT doing what you know you should do.

Most of the achievement oriented people I know do this quite a bit.  It is as though they are on a quest for perfection and anything less than that is unsatisfying.

Don’t get me wrong … I think it’s a great thing to be on a quest for perfection, and I believe people who are, will ultimately experience a good deal of success because they’ll never feel as though they’ve arrived.  There will always be something else to accomplish. Continue reading

Mirror the Actions of People Who Have What You Want

When I was 20 years old I was introduced to a business opportunity which had a very solid process which, if followed, would have produced significant results.  At least that’s what I was told.

I was a tad bit different back in those days.  I had a rockin’ mullet with my hair below my shoulders, an earring, but it was all business on the top … just a little poofy business since I hadn’t yet been introduced to hair product.  :)

The guys I met with, explained how this would be my own business and how, although I was in business for myself, I wasn’t in business by myself.  They committed to teach me the same system that many other people had followed to become extremely successful.

I spent some time thinking about it and finally decided if anyone could make it successful, I could.  The only thing was I was NOT willing to cut my hair or take out my earring, and I told them as much.  I remember them smiling at me and saying, “That’s fine.”  I am sure my chest puffed up and I thought to myself, “I’ll show them that I can make it happen my own way and without following their system.”

After all … I was 20 years old making $5 per hour and cleaning houses on the side to make ends meet to support my wife and son … what could they teach me?   ;) Continue reading

Don’t Waste Your Energy Asking Why. Sometimes That’s Just the Way it Is!

Don’t you just love it when you are cooped up in the car with young children, going on a long trip and every time they see something they haven’t seen before, they begin with the questions?

Well, if you are anything like me … it drives you nuts!  :)

I understand these questions are an absolute requirement for their development and the answers you provide goes a long way in developing their intellectual capital.  So, although it can be extremely frustrating and annoying, as parents, we need to take the time to answer these questions and show as little irritation as possible so you don’t deter their inquisitiveness and stifle their growth.

Even though this is true it’ll still drive even the most patient of people crazy when every explanation is met with the question …

“Why?” Continue reading